Ain’t that the truth, but sometimes easier said than done. I’m constantly forgiving, understanding, kind, always giving people the benefit out the doubt and seeing things from there perspective (Libra problems), which is all great, but not everyone deserves your understanding. Once some one betrays you, throws you under the bus, or doesn’t have your back – all bets are off. For me, and I admit this probably isn’t the best policy but, you fuck with me, then you’re dead to me, there’s no in between. It takes me some time to get to this point, but once I’m there, there’s no turning back. Never let people walk all over you or take advantage of you. I personally give people too much benefit of the doubt. If you’re the same way, the best thing to do is be able to recognize consistent behaviors. If someone’s talked shit about you once, and then again, and again – you better let that person go. There’s no excuse for repeat offerders that stomp all over you.
Today I challenge you to get fed up. Recognize those in your life that consistently treat you poorly. It can be someone at home, at work or school, it’s ok to do some relationship purging. Trust me, once you open your eyes to who these people are and choose to take the action off letting them go, you will start to feel releaved.